I was so upset this morning. Last night H supposed to pick up kids from school, but he let me to do it because he needs to work overtime. He came back home this morning just when we were about to leave home. He then walked the kids to school. After he came back, I told him I am going to throw a thanksgiving party at home otherwise the kids will feel bored since their dad will not be with them. But I wanted him to have a good excuse about his absense so our friends and their kids will not gossip about this situation since they don't know anything yet. Suddenly he was so angry and claimed I shouldn't invite people to our house if I don't want them to know the truth.
Then we started to argue about the timeshare of taking care of kids. I told him I'm glad to see kids every day but he is too irresponsible if he cannot take care of the kids as he promised and he is selfish that he just leave the kids at home on holidays for two weeks.
I know I shouldn't say that, but he also made me very angry frown
He even threat me that after he come back from his leaving, he will take the kids to his new apartment, which is 20-30 minutes drive from the school.
I just cannot stop thinking that he is such selfish and irresponsible. I don't know how to deal it better frown

M 18 yrs
5 & 7 yrs old kids
H DB in 4/2013
H moved out in 11/2013