Personally I've never heard anyone say they were happy to be spanked as a kid.
Nobody likes it. Ever.
I remember this one time my teacher slapped me because my hair grew too long and I gave some stupid reason. I was humiliated but I have kept my hair in the appropriate length throughout my school years. Thinking back, I would have rebelled if I haven't been set straight by my teacher. That has a lot to do with my own character. I learned and was humbled by it all. I would say some people may not see it my way and could have taken that experience completely different.
No, I do not accept OM disciplining my Ds physically. I would have to accept that XW have chosen this man and begins to build a new family. I don't think she's fogged up. It's pretty clear what she wants.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet