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Originally Posted By: Ambivalent
...I did tell him when I found out about him using a prostitute. I blurted it out, but took responsibility . Meaning it wasn't his fault that I couldn't climax, that it was me.


I blurted out that I knew about the P.

I took responsibility that it wasn't his fault that I couldn't climax. He went to her he says, because he needed to be touched, he was going crazy.

Now at the time he went to her...was in the middle of us selling our house, one daughter falling apart, and me stressed beyond compare. He never told me how he felt.

He probably hinted, but we never sat down and discussed it.






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When someone makes no demands at all they can be seen as being passive and happy, which could result in their partner not making much effort.
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Well if you mean demands sexually, no I never have. It never ever occurred to me to do so. I asked if he would hold my face ore head. I also asked for him to take me passionately, not rape, not aggressively but , throw me up against a wall.

Never got either :C


Formerly Workinprogress
H :55
M :over 29 yrs.
Together : 33
D : college
D : adult
BD and left : May 2013
Separated
Experimenting/Replay

Jan 2014...Let go of rope!


God grant me the serenity...