So I spoke to my wife again today about me moving out of the house.

I stood my ground and refused to move out. I have also tried to delay mediation until January to give me some time and also because it is more convenient for me & my business. However, she says that she is not willing to wait until January to start mediation so I get the impression she is now going to begin court action. She didn't get angry this time & stayed calm but just said something like "right if that's your final answer, fine"

Are you guys who have advised standing my ground and staying in the house really sure about this?

She seems like she believes that I am not thinking about the needs of my son as well and it looks like this is actually going to push her even faster towards wanting a divorce.

I wouldn't want her & my son to end up in some run down area either.

So, now what?


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014