Hey JP....thanks for asking. I'm a little late checking in because...well, I just don't check my own thread that often any more
I'm really good all in all. I'm dating, and while weird, it's also fun. I'm a lot more confident in who I am and I recognize that I am the prize. It's a long way from the insecure guy I used to be.
XW and I have limited interactions. She was over last week to pick up the kids and propositioned me, but this time, I bowed out. It was really the first time I had said no to her....finally walking the walk as I had said in my last post. She was really upset about it and it turned into a relationship discussion. Basically I just said what I've been saying for 6 months...lose the OM and we can talk. I have had enough of the drama....I like the peace I have now, even if it means no reconciliation.
I've been real busy with my life so haven't had much time to sit and think about things too much. My focus has turned from repairing my M to building new relationships.
I'm volunteering at church this weekend to serve Thanksgiving dinner to those in need, along with XW and all our kids. This is an area where I wanted to start putting some effort, but continually made excuses. I could have said "I don't want to do this with xw" but that would just be another excuse. It's time to get off my butt and start being the guy I want to be.
