I've looked at life from both sides now

[RosaLinda]

Holy crumbs Raine, you H is really thinking. I am so glad you received the apology you have been craving, my friend. It is good to hear that H realizes what he has put you through. That he can recognize the baseless anger, the oblivion. Even though his timeline does not line up with yours, that might just some MLC memory glitch, and not deception. He sounds as if he is being as honest and open as he can. 

You are a good wife Raine. A great mom. A good DBer. I'm glad it's working out for you! Job had great advice for you, and for all of us. Take a deep breath, and hang in there!