Raine, You've had some huge developments in your situation and they all look positive. If he wants you to ask questions, then do so.
What he told you about the BD and the anger is very much spot on. That anger is something that they really don't know why they have it, but they do and it does spur them on to their destructive paths. He's being very honest w/you about that.
Take things slowly and remember...the old marriage is gone/dead. You are now entering into a new one w/people who have traveled difficult roads and neither of you will ever be the same. Keep those expectations at zero at all times because he's going to need your compassion and understanding in the days ahead. His new self is still very fragile and like a baby learning to walk...he's going to need to know you are there, but not judging him for makes mistakes and stumbling along until his legs are stronger.
I'm happy to hear that he apologized.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
