Accepting the Confusion - It is what it is Part 5

[RosaLinda]

"I guess I should let him "fall on his face" more....like with the lunch bill. Yes, our school would have fed the kids sandwiches...and that would have been okay. I just don't want our kids to have to pay for him being selfish."

This is something I think all women need to do with their Hs Ang, not just those in MLCs. My first marriage counselor (not a DB coach) said that men need to feel respected above all else. That they do not like women to tell them what to do, and they do not want to be fixed or coddled. I have been a great coddler and fixer in my marriage

I changed my H's name in my cell phone from "H" to "H - is this text necessary?" It makes me think a second before texting him!