It's really difficult to not have anyone be supportive of your decision to stand for your marriage. I'm in the same boat, people are telling me that they would have long since kicked him to the curb. I'm being "too nice" by just standing by and letting the chips fall where they may. Like you said, you just do you. It sounds like you are doing a good job at GAL'ing, so keep it up! The best thing you can do right now is try to detach yourself from him. Don't worry if he calls or texts. Just go on with your day like you were going to either way.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
