Pud, I vaguely remember my H started closing the door to the vanity room shortly before the BD. I started to suspect something, but had no clue what was coming, the BD. I still think that my suspicions were not for nothing. I don’t have a proof, but I think H was starting or thinking about an EA with somebody in that state where he worked. I also think that the number I confronted him about was it, a potential EA. This is why he freaked out and gave me the speech.

So, the thing that your H started showing his “nekkedness” (LOL) is a good sign. Also, the “Baby”… Yeah! My BIL calls me babe (he calls a lot of other woman this as well, so nothing special). This reminds me of my H all the time. I liked it when he called me babe. Hey, at least I can have it from BIL.

Can’t wait for your update on the “date”. Good luck!


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state