Originally Posted By: Ambivalent
...I did tell him when I found out about him using a prostitute. I blurted it out, but took responsibility . Meaning it wasn't his fault that I couldn't climax, that it was me.

I don't understand the logic there. You couldn't climax, so he went to a prostitute? Surely he wasn't expecting them to have real orgasms? Perhaps he needed a good fake orgasm to boost his ego.

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We've been together quite sometime, so I'm sure I have done it more. Why?

When someone makes no demands at all they can be seen as being passive and happy, which could result in their partner not making much effort.