Think you need to work on that. You are sounded needy and clingy, not good. I know, some here are saying WTF. But, girl, you need to detach, it doesn't matter if your H is home; detach, detach! Act as if you are moving forward. He is just staying at your home once in a while.
I'm glad my H is not bouncing back and forth! It is good that he doesn't live here so I don't have to put up with the dailey trauma of his life! But, your H is home, and it makes it harder for you to deal.
Get a new attitude. Your path is harder than most because your H is not through the tunnel yet. He is dealing with it while he is home. I know this is hard for you! So go on your own journey.
Deb BTW I'll get around to linking your posts soon
