Angela, he is obviously having some bad time right now. No matter what you do or how you ask, he is going to find something wrong with everything because he is very angry. I know from personal experience. I had this intense anger episode just a few days ago. I had this urge to make nasty comments, send sarcastic and hateful messages, etc. I managed to not go there, because I knew I would regret it later. All I wanted was for everybody to leave me alone, and it didn’t matter if people were trying to be nice and understanding, I was still angry.
I know how difficult it is for you to communicate with your H in moments like that. All you have to remember that it is not about you, or kids. You are doing the right thing to let it go.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state