@Jon... That is exactly what I was thinking so I sent a text suggesting that we hang out over the weekend to fit better with her work schedule.

I had previously felt like weekends were maybe too "real date" like. But we need to move forward at some point.

Here is how the exchange went

Me: I was thinking maybe we should hang out on the weekend and that would be easier on your work schedule.

Her: been working thru the weekends. It's crazy. Hopefully as we approach the holiday season work will lighten up a little smile

Me: hopefully all your bosses don't hover too much on the weekends... If you can take a break, I can provide great stress relief smile

Her: going to (home town) this weekend and next.

I did not respond. I said before that I think that there may be some sort of OM in her hometown. Of course that is mind reading.

On Monday She sent the happy birthday wish and asked me for drinks on Wednesday. She is too busy Wednesday and cancels. Seems like she wouldn't want to have drinks with me if she is involved with an OM. I probably pursued too much in this exchange. I will back off now. And so a few more weeks will go by before we can get together.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)