I attempted to call SD twice back in Aug and in Sept. Left message both times, no return phone calls. I sent her an email in late Sept. No reply. She told W about it and W asked me to please not contact SD again. I did send a b-day card to SD in Oct, but no reply from that either. So at this point, I'm not sure if I should send another email or try to contact SD again.
In terms of good traits, W always talked about how she loved my dependability and strength. That she could rely on me in tough situations. That she always new I would be there if she needed to lean on me. That I was her "rock".
I have asked W in terms of help with the finances. She has said no each time. SD sat down with W in Aug after I moved out and helped her in terms of what needed to be paid and when.
The only interaction we have is based on our 2 cats. One of them has been sick and we have had several vet appts that both W and I have gone to together. In actuality, the cats are 90% of what W and I talk about now. And if it wasn't for W allowing me to come over on the weekend for about an hour or 2 to see the cats, I would imagine W would not have me over at all.
