Originally Posted By: labug
What does "showing remorse" look like?

And if it is true remorse, it's his to handle. Remorse is easy, it's changing the behaviors which lead to the remorse that's difficult. That's what you're looking for, isn't it?

You have the power here, CC. Do you want a M with him as he is now?


He verbally expresses remorse and no, I don't want a relationship with the man he is now. I want the man he was, the man he can be, the man I chose as the father of my kids.

This man is some way off. Back in the oven with him!


M32 H37
DD1 6 DD2 5
M6 T10
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