is there any way you can remove him from the equation of asking him to do things? can you pay the lunch bill? can you schedule their haircuts?
I'm sure he would get mad at you for doing this too, but it would be a bit less stressful to just do it instead of asking for him to.
Remember his words right now do not have anything to do with you, he is dealing some severe anger issues inside and is pinning it on you.
Stay strong today Angela. No texty! No texty!
Yeah, Pud. I can do more of this stuff myself. He's complained that I don't include him enough on this stuff so I've been trying to include him.
Plus, right now, I am paying for everything...while he blows his money on whatever he wants. The kids' needs are the only way that I can get him to pay for anything.
He already pretty much does NOTHING....I pay all bills...take care of everything.....mow yard, take care of vehicles, etc. but like you said, if it means more peace and less stress...then I can take on more of this stuff.
