It's only fear that makes you run

[Whiterose]

Yesterday was a full day of talk for me and H. We had all the messages earlier I the day about the kids going to movie night, asking who called him from the house, and then when I got home, about 5:40, I got a text about S14 being hurt in gym class.

S19 called me at 10ish am saying S14 heard something snap when he got tacked in wrestling. S19 was freaking out. I messaged S14 and he said "no, I'm ok" so I told S19 that he's ok. S19 also talked to H about it (H's work, our home and S14's school are all within blocks of each other). Anyway last night I get the message
"S19 told me S14 hurt himself in gym. Is he ok?"
"He's ok. A little sore but he's just fine. It's wrestling right now"
"Ok. He told S19 he heard a crack"
"I have a feeling it's a big of an over exaggeration (or the school would have called me instead but oh well) I talked to S14 two minutes later and he said he was fine. I'm thinking he had the wind knocked out of him more than anything"
"Ok. Thank you"
"Of course"

Then I wen to parent teacher and saw the teacher (G) who was going to call H about the report card, etc. G said he was surprised that H called him back because I said he wouldn't. I had to let G know that H is acting out of character and messaged me constantly over random stuff. G mentioned that he could tell H wanted to engage, ask more questions, but G didn't want to start a conversation and told him the bell had rung and he had to go (which it had and he did). G emailed the report card and iep to H on Wednesday.

I noticed on S14's phone he told H on Wednesday night he did want to go the movie so I am still at a loss as to why h felt the need to confirm S14's availability with me.