WAW having affair, still living in separate rooms

[kenva]

Thank you lovethehub. We had our talk last night for half an hour. She really wants this house and is pushing me to qualify to take the marital house. The conversation was calm and warm. I agreed w her saying it is tense at the house now. And that I hope she is happy w the house she wants. She said I can see myself having a life there. She said that she is glad to see that I am being reasonable now. She said that our s is smart and that I have given u a good looking one. I told her he got the smarts from me and the looks from you. We chuckled. I told her that we had some good years together and she agreed. I then brought up her friend being around our s. told her to put herself in my shoes if I did that to her. She got a little defensive. I even called him out by name. I told her that I'm not stupid and an idiot. I know what's going in there and to not treat me like an idiot. All in all we left to go to sleep, in our separate beds on a good note. She also said she can't live like this anymore. This morning. She pushed it again to call the mortgage co. I asked her where this house was so I would know where my s would be. She text earlier saying she can show me the house today but told her I was busy all morning.
Man!!!! I am trying to keep a cool head with all of this knowing deep done inside I hate it and all I want to do is go off on her. I am going to show her that she is going to be a fool to want to leave me.