I can relate to the running away from uncomfortable feelings. That is my H to a tee. In hindsight, he did it a lot on a much smaller scale and from much less serious issues. This is magnified 1000 percent now. And MLC definetly equals 'slow'
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home