Oh and one thing to perhaps consider. Him moving out and then back in is happening repeatedly because you allow it.

The vets here always caution not to allow a WAS back into the home without first making it known that you won't allow this to happen again.

In your situation it might be tough because you may not have aby credibility now that you allowed it so many times. But think about this.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017