I'm not an expert but 20 sepaations seems a little much. I think I would take my time and try to make sure this is the last, and that my spouse has taken the time to figure out why they keep running.

Good for you for getting back to work. It will help keeping your mind off of things.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017