I think it's fair to say remorse encourages a healthy functional human being to make changes in their behavior.

I'm not sure the same holds true for the MLC-er.

History repeats itself. For the last two years especially--In my H, at least, I see him running like a bat outta He!! from any uncomfortable feelings. He may be able to face a small amount at a time. But, I wouldn't expect him to have genuine feelings of remorse and make big, sweeping changes in a single event. I think just about everything is SLOW with the MLC-er. Little bit at a time.

Just my .o2.

Heather


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