Wasn't the snow great yesterday? The kids had a snow day since the roads were so bad. We played all day and D9 and I skated in the backyard last night!
You are doing great. Way to back up your words with action! When you walk the walk and talk the talk, the ball is really in your H's court.
I think he will respond to that even more than he already appears to be. The OW is a crutch to him, I don't think he's even feeling connected to her anymore. I think he is flailing about and will eventually land back where he belongs - with you.
I can relate to your S crawling in with you. My S3 does that sometimes too, usually after getting up to go to the bathroom. And I don't always put him back in to his bed because it further disrupts my sleep. And we all know that mom needs sleep too - I bet your H wouldn't always move him either if the situation was reversed.
Hang in there - you are doing great!
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