Moved Back from Overseas to Figure This Out...

[labug]

What do you hope to get from this forum? Rally think about what you want out of this.

But I seem to see confusion in her, and I fear it is not the, "Hmm, maybe he's not such a bad guy," confusion, but more so the, "Is he already forgetting the things I told him?" kind of confusion.

A gentle reminder here, you weren't very good at mindreading her before

Three months ago my W shared "out of the blue" (for me at least) that the love was gone, no more connection, that I am controlling and manipulative, that I have stolen her voice, etc.

so I wouldn't rely on those skills now.

If you become the man, husband, father, she needs she'll see that and it may give her pause.

Mindreading keeps the focus on her, your focus needs to be you.