W asked again if I wanted to watch the dogs while she is out of town for turkey day. I already have plans to be out of town as well so said I am not able to.

She then pretty much accused me of not wanting to help her and making up plans to avoid here. Said it was fishy that someone who never goes out is now all of a sudden got plans the two times she needs someone to watch the dogs. I just told her that I only said I couldn't twice and both times I had other plans.

Now she says we should go ahead and finalize because she is checked out and I am moving on. She always thought I would just move on without her and now it looks like that is what I'm doing.


me: 30 XW:28
tgthr:4 m:1
no kids
BD: June 2013
D: Jan 2014