My H is showing a lot of remorse for his actions, not just over the OW, but over his years of selfish behaviour. I can see a lot of guilt. I've validated, I've given words of affirmation, but I'm wondering what the significance of this remorse is?
His LL is WOA which I struggle with and always have it at the forefront of my mind when is his presence. My issue is that he isn't doing a lot right at the moment so WOA is difficult.
He spends a significant amount of time using WOA with me (sadly my LL is PT and QT......oh how I miss PT). His secondary LL is AOS but how can I do that when he's not here? How can I do stuff for him without coming off as pursuing?
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13