Welcome back!

Him caring for the lawn could be for many reasons.
But since you can only control you and know what you are thinking....how did you react after he was finished, did you tell him thanks or that the lawn looked nice?

If your H keeps making new friends, well you just continue to make them your friends too, if possible....I think its great you all went to the coworkers house and had a good time. Your able to show your H and the coworkers he talks to what a great person you are to be around.

I didn't have a chance to read your old posts...but what have you been doing as GALs and 180s?


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope