So, h hasn't mowed the lawn in over 2 months. This weekend, why I had S at a party, he started mowing/raking. When we got home, I said we would come help. "No! It's MY job." he had been in a mood for 2 days and the anger in him was evident...I asid OK and went to clean out the garden and prep for winter. S wanted total attention and H wanted to get yard done, so S and I played football, soccer and jumped on the trampoline...laughing and having fun.
So after 2 months of neglecting the yard, wanting a divorce, etc, he suddenly stakes claim to his yard!