Nightly observation: I have become the tucker-inner of S12 & S10 on a nightly basis. Even though W stays in her lair (aka MBR) right across the hall 99.9% of the time, she basically ignores them. I just walked up from downstairs past her to tell the boys goodnight, give hugs & kisses, and tell them I Love You. Some nights, like tonight, she doesn't even bother to follow behind me.

This is the same woman that has spit numerous times that she was the only one there for all these years. Amazing role reversals. My lost W still puts on the face of control for everyone else. If they only knew how much she was hurting and how checked out she really is.

Nightly Affirmation: I've Got This. My boys need me and I'm the man for them.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

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