Just keep in mind that the ups and downs are part of a well documented pattern. The pulling away is almost always a direct response to the coming closer or behaving nicer and wnjoying time with you. It's not because you are doing anything wrong, and it could even be because you are doing things right.
Don't let it make you anxious.
I soooooo agree!!
Learn from my experience. My H pulled closer in May-Beginning of June. He was coming over weekly.
He, then, distanced himself in June. I panicked. Big time.
I over-reacted.
I made ultimatums and blew all the progress to smithereens.
He is now living with OW again.
Take it nice and easy. YOu can do this. Slow and steady wins this race.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
