Thanks Fly, you have truly helped me so much. You helped me find strength in myself when I thought there was none left. I have made it through the limbo!!!!!!! (dance of joy)

I think the hockey game is big too. Ok.. I will have some damn fun!! smile it's just an OHL game though, not the Leafs :P
Pens fan eh.. we drove all the way down to Pittsburg a few years ago to see the Pens vs Leafs..

His LL is Acts of Service, big time. And I notice that lately he has been doing little acts of service for me here and there. We are both starting to do nice things for each other like getting coffee in the morning. I got him his favourite chocolate bar for his study break the other day. I think he really likes it when I do things like iron his clothes, etc (which I never do, but I imagine he would like) hehe. I will have to think of some more things to do. What he really wants is for me to leave the house with the kids for a few hours so he can relax here.

I agree with you about date night, I want to try some different, new, exciting things. Before we did the exact thing every time, ran a few errands while we had a babysitter then went out to dinner at a nice restaurant. Or we would go for wings and beer. I want to mix it up a bit!! Maybe go see a comedy show or (eventually) go for a weekend away to Niagara Falls or on a wine tour. Don't think H would go for a dance class.. although I would absolutely love that!

It would be nice if we could get into some sort of hobby together. We used to play volleyball together, until we had kids and now I don't play since I need to stay at home with the little ones.

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.