Your daughter's boyfriend situation would scare the heck out of me. I'm glad Ss 17 are doing well in school. It must be so hard to live with irrational anxiety. I hope S20 is doing better, or at least has some respite from his fears.
<<But I wanna know NOW! >> This sure does force us to learn how to be patient, doesn't it?
But I think the further on we get in this, it's easier to look at the situation more dispassionately, so that we can make those right decisions, the ones we can be at peace with.
