Sorry to hear your H is being an a to you. Seems like he realizes he has no control over you because of the whole house sitch and now is trying to find another way to get your goat.

I hope you S does stay with you, I can't imagine he would be happy for long at his father's.

Stay strong TTD.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.