Sorry to hear about these latest issues TTD180. Sounds to me like the H is doing the paying you back for not selling the house etc. Hold you head up high, if you have to catch the bus to your son's presentation then so be it. Simply think of it as your son was already at that place, and you just had to get there yourself. Take the H out of all the equations.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.