Me 13 months on, affair finally confirmed.

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Just updating:
* No answer from the friend, not even a thanks. At least I had no expectations, so no loss.
* Still no paperwork from the solicitor, now overdue by about 3 weeks.
* No one in the family (including sons) has called/texted and let me know about the W's affair. Doesn't mean they don't want to or don't care, they may not know themselves yet.
* Reading the book "not just friends" all about infidelity. A very good read.
* Three weeks today before I head back "home".
* Party tomorrow night with another 7 workers who are getting out of this place. It's called a "finally getting out of here" fancy dress party.
* Feeling a lot easier talking to my sons and people in general without some form of subject about the W or separation coming up. Not that I have talked to the sons about these subjects for a long time. Just the thought in my my head isn't there as much.