Cathy I just went through part of what you did; telling my H what I wanted. I also cried, but if you're like me we can't help but cry, so it is alright.
Vinlad is great isn't she!?
Quote: Your husband now knows where you stand and he does have some thinking to do. With MLC, this is normal in order for them to continue through the tunnel. Now you will end up back in limbo land, but you have totally released him for the first time, and now you will continue with action.
I'm there with you, it's kind of scary, but don't let every minute of everyday be about your R with H. Go find something to keep you busy. I am and it helps! Plus when my mind goes to the wrong place, I talk to myself, pray and put my mind somewhere else!