Quote: You are having to face things in order for you to deal with all the emotions and get through them so when that confrontation time happens, you are very calm. Yet at the same time very firm and loving. Does this make sense to you?
Laurie, came back to this as tonight was confrontation night, also. I lovingly, told H I loved him, the reason I have been so happy, so detached so "uncaring" like as H was looking at it was because I had "hope" I was "hoping" things would work out between us.
Lots was said today and tonight...H is still confused, but I can't keep letting him run back and forth this would have been the third time and I just couldn't do it...
About 6:30ish the conversations pretty much ended. H went downstairs to the bedroom to think and hasn't come back up, as I said early he went to sleep. H also has a drinking problem which we touched on today.
All in all our day was good, there was no yelling..the crying yes, but it was me being vulnerable and H wouldn't even hug me which is okay.
