Jp787. How is ur piecing going? Did it help after your w moved out? It's real tense in our home now sleeping in other rooms and avoiding each other around the house.
Honest answer is if she had not have left, we would have D.
IDK if we would have made it to this point (where we are now) if she said or not, but it "Took" her leaving for me to stop my sh!t. I was consumed and no reason could talk me down. Just look at my earlier threads, I was horrible!
As hard as it is, you can only work hard on you and not worry about the OM. If she moves out, they may end up spending more time together and yeah I get that your fighting against that, but maybe look at it this way. Maybe she needs to be on her own, maybe she needs to be with OM, maybe this is what has to happen for things to change and have a chance of working out?
Your best bet is to work on you, for you. Trust me, I know it is hard. It was the hardest thing I have ever been through and I struggled bad
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
