S4 (autistic) is the equivalent of a 2 yr old in regards to this sort of thing, he is just not aware. It's currently like having two 2 year olds.
If he was like any other 4yr old I wouldn't skip on it.
What I find strange is last xmas W had actually bought herself things off the kids as she thought we weren't going to spend it together. This time we definitely aren't together and this time she wants to do it.
As they are both not involved I would just be doing it to buy gifts for W and her for me. I find the idea ridiculous at the moment.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14