I don't think that my H listens to me at all. I was at work and picked up my work phone to make a call and there was no dial tone. My H was on the other end. I guess he called at the exact moment I picked up the phone. I asked if everything was ok and he says yes.
He called to ask if we had the movie Hunger Games on DVD. If he had sent a text I would have ignored it because it is not important and/or does not really require me to respond. He went on talking about the movie and said that he would pick it up. Since I was already on the phone, I tried to be friendly and just said that I had no idea (because I really dont).
Other than simply not answering the phone (which I did not mean to do this time), what else can I do to enforce my boundary that I don't want to be friends while he is with OW? I dont want to talk about this stupid movie because it is the last one that we went to together and I hate that I cant go to the new one with him. I hate that I have to wonder whether he will take OW. AHAHA. I hate this....