New to the board, fairly newly LBS from MLC.

[Pudmuddle]

I know right? Up down Up down Up down, it's like a bad seesaw ride.

My H was doing that at first too, not caring much about S's activities, but has since reinvested in that. Hopefully that will improve for your S's sake.

I found myself really enjoying the times H wasn't there after awhile for the same reasons. Didn't have to try and avoid someone in my own house. Awkward!

Yes, expect him not to come home and then you may be nicely surprised if he does. Do something nice for yourself in your alone time. Take a nice bubblebath! and get all purdied up, just for you! I've done that sometimes just to help my mood perk up.

Hang in there tigergirl.