Confused,

Welcome to the boards. People here are great. Sorry you find yourself in this position. I think that with depressed spouses, detaching and GALing are especially important.

Good luck.

s4tk


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Me: 37 W: 37
M: 11
D:5 S:2
IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13
EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13
W moved out 05/14