Originally Posted By: ccZ28

She told me that she might look for an apartment near our house. This made me very ... sad/emotional/angry.


Yes, this reminds me of the months just after BD in my sitch. My W seemed very loving, kind, generous, etc. It really seemed like she had changed her mind. But if I ever asked, I instantly got a reality check. She was fully intent on moving out even though it seemed like things were better than they had been in years. And she DID move out. Just prepare yourself, because it's easy to underestimate just how "done" a WAS is.

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So it was a bad/good night. Obviously I made mistakes.


What mistakes do you think you made? I didn't see any in what you described.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57