Definitely a lot of good advice there. One question i have for you. I know I obviously do not show her the DR book, but would it ever be a good idea to show her the 5LL book? Or suggest it as a read?
Or is that something I would do if/when she decides she wants to reconcile?
[quote] Longer term, you have to do the quality time. TV off, no distractions, looking her in the eye and speaking to her for some period of time every day, regardless of whether or not it leads to sex. You should also make it a point to go to bed at the same time as a rule. If you can do that, then the "you only want me for sex" complaint should disappear on it's own.
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I have been doing this since I learned that this was an issue. Every chance I get, i go to bed with her. But now she is not living at home... much harder to go to bed with her, and I know that when I started to really pay attention to her she said to stop suffocating her. So i'm in the balance mode.
One other thing that i find very strange, is that when she is talking to me, I look into her eyes, and truly listen to her, she gets mad and says "why are you staring at me"
Am i doing something wrong?
Any thoughts on the rest of my previous post? Thanks,
