Hi, I posted on Newcomers, but also wanted to post here and ask a specific question here I didn't ask there. If anyone out there has been through infertility and adoption, please give me your thoughts. Has anyone here ever learned of of an EA and MLC and H. depression in the midst of an adoption process? If so, what did you do? !
This is where I am at now. Our baby will be here in June/July, but we need to sign last bit of paperwork in May. H. wants to continue adoption. I am committed to the marriage, and the baby, but he is unsure about our marriage, but still living with me..and we are "ok" on the surface, but the EA is there, the MLC is there, and his depression is there - combined with my reaction to his EA, MLC, etc... The EA is apparently over....
I realize this is an odd situation...but ANY thoughts would be much appreciated. I only learned of this 2 weeks ago, and thought until March I would just DB away and let ir ride and revisit then...but thought I could also use some advice in case anyone has been in this or similar situations. Thanks! C.
