Just saw my therapist and she told me to let myself off the hook for the lie. She said the problem was that I was reacting and not thinking and then acting. She said to just move on.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15