I finally have a bit of time - work and lots of piddling details that need doing have been tying me up.
My W is - and this is just description, not defense or whatever - tough, proud of it, perfectionist, eats fish eyeballs, often impatient, assertive, outspoken, a fast runner, 'a wild beauty' (my cousin said this), rejecting of friends she no longer considers relevant or current, a steel trap mind, dubious of monogamy, etc.
Yes, EE made me see myself better - I really do like people (especially the EE kind!) and want to be around them - thank you Bond -
My M is not healthy and I have no problem with a D now. Lots of women to meet, relationships to be built, much fun to be had: a better life awaits.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.