Bea, you are anything but a woose you are a strong wonderful woman, whose xH cannot totally let go, who desperately wants attention from you, even if it is bad attention. Like a little kid!
I'm not an old timer, ILikeMeNow, my bomb was not until 1/2010; I think H's MLC started some time in 2008. I'm still standing. I truly believe in for better or worse, but think H marrying his OW would be the end of it for me. You are pretty darn amazing!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
you are a strong wonderful woman, whose xH cannot totally let go, who desperately wants attention from you, even if it is bad attention. Like a little kid!