How to convince resistant LD wife?

[Ambivalent]

Sometimes I did and sometimes I kept it to myself. The sex, no, I was afraid. I did tell him when I found out about him using a prostitute. I blurted it out, but took responsibility . Meaning it wasn't his fault that I couldn't climax, that it was me.

When it came to his family, I did bring it up. As for his time with sports, I believe I did but it made no difference. He would come up with some excuse about his job and traveling and not having a regular schedule. But yet he could still commit to his games and practices, golf, etc...

As for demanding , no. But I'm sure I did make him feel something else was more important. For example,
when we moved to where we are currently, I had done a ton of landscaping. For it to survive the Summer, I had to water it regularly. That Summer I didn't go to the beach with the family.

I believe that bothered him, for he did bring it up when talking about our property and how much work it was. I have remedied this by the by.

We've been together quite sometime, so I'm sure I have done it more. Why?